Monday Manna: How to be a DO (not a Don’t)

Laurie Cole POSTED BY Laurie Cole

Ever had a meltdown? Sure you have. Ever have one in public? Em-barrassing. But hopefully, it wasn’t caught on camera, uploaded to YouTube, and watched by millions like Martha’s was.

Martha’s meltdown went viral — but not on the internet or YouTube. No, hers was recorded for all time in the Bible. The Word of God (talk about embarrassing). And for 2000 years, millions of people have read this account of Martha’s famous meltdown:

Luke 10:38-42 (NLT) 
38 As Jesus and the disciples continued on their way to Jerusalem, they came to a certain village where a woman named Martha welcomed them into her home.
39 Her sister, Mary, sat at the Lord’s feet, listening to what he taught.
40 But Martha was distracted by the big dinner she was preparing. She came to Jesus and said, “Lord, doesn’t it seem unfair to you that my sister just sits here while I do all the work? Tell her to come and help me.”
41 But the Lord said to her, “My dear Martha, you are worried and upset over all these details!
42 There is only one thing worth being concerned about. Mary has discovered it, and it will not be taken away from her.”

One minute, Martha was Ms. Hospitality. Two verses later, Ms. Meltdown. And today, this snapshot of Martha has become the source of countless sermons with the primary application being: don’t be a Martha. 

We can all relate to Martha. We’ve all had days when we were a don’t. But this is what I so love about Martha: she didn’t stay there. Check out Martha’s next encounter with Jesus which occurred four days after the death of her beloved brother, Lazarus:

John 11:21-27 (NLT) 
21 Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if only you had been here, my brother would not have died.
22 But even now I know that God will give you whatever you ask.”
23 Jesus told her, “Your brother will rise again.”
24 “Yes,” Martha said, “he will rise when everyone else rises, at the last day.”
25 Jesus told her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Anyone who believes in me will live, even after dying.
26 Everyone who lives in me and believes in me will never ever die. Do you believe this, Martha?”
27 “Yes, Lord,” she told him. “I have always believed you are the Messiah, the Son of God, the one who has come into the world from God.”

We tend to forget about this scriptural snapshot of Martha. The Martha who is confident in Christ. The Martha who is facing worst-case-scenario circumstances with no hint of a meltdown in the making. The Martha who is a do.

But God didn’t forget. And He included this snapshot of Martha in John’s Gospel so that we wouldn’t forget that He doesn’t just see us when we’re don’ts. He sees us when we’re dos, too.

It’s Monday, precious sister, and maybe you week’s already off to a rough start — it may even include a meltdown. But even if does, do what Martha did. Don’t stay in that snapshot of you as a don’t. Receive God’s forgiveness and move forward by faith. Then rest assured that your Father will see a beautiful, new snapshot of you. As a do.

Praying for you this Monday, your sister,

P. S.  Thanks for your prayers today as I prepare to speak at Ladies Night Out tonight at my church. Thanks, too, for your grace in reading this reprinted post from our archives . . . which gave me a little extra time to prepare for tonight. Love!

Laurie Cole is the President of Priority Ministries and the author of six Bible studies for women: There is a Season, The Temple, Beauty by The Book, Beauty by The Book for Teens, Warrior Princess, and Are You a Disciple? A frequent speaker at women's events, find out how to invite Laurie to speak at your event.

6 comments on “Monday Manna: How to be a DO (not a Don’t)

    Diane.ohara@verizon.net' Diane says:

    Laurie, this article was just what I needed to hear at the right time….thank you for reprinting the post…perfect timing.


    Laurie Cole says:

    Praising the Lord with you, Diane, for His perfect timing AND that “His mercies are new every morning” (Lam. 3:22-23).

    lisaupshaw22@yahoo.com' Lisa Upshaw says:

    I just read this…on Tuesday..EXACTLY WHEN I NEEDED TO HEAR IT!! Thank you Laurie!! Also, you were great last night!! I know exactly what the “funk” feels like!!

    Laurie Cole says:

    Such a gift to hear from you, Lisa! Had no idea you were there last night or I woulda found you and hugged your neck. Love and miss you so much, sweet sister.

    lisaupshaw22@yahoo.com' Lisa Upshaw says:

    I was going to try to get over to you but I figured EVERYBODY else was doing the same!! You blessed me Laurie!! Thank you!

    Thankful for this message. Totally had a Martha don’t a couple days ago with a meltdown over a stressful situation when I should have just taken it to the Lord in the first place. Workin on being a Martha Do!

We always love hearing from you.

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *